Monday, October 31, 2005

Halloween 05

A sad day.
It's the first time in 16 years I haven't had a Halloween Party.
When they took away our right to blow up explosives in the privacy of my parent's back yard, they took the fun out of the 31st.
Not surrounded by dozens of people, I celebrated quietly. With a fat book in a candle lit home.

Highlight of the evening: a pudgy dad in an Incredibles costume, complete with oh-so-tight speedo tights, waiting for his kids to get their treats, posing with a puffed out chest on my front doorstep. I'll need to wash my brain with acid to get that image out of my mind.

Clint went through my costume box and re-lived his childhood with gleeful abandon.
Max loaded his pockets with firecrackers and went looking for trouble. Ended up meeting his friends at A & W and had a teen burger.


That green top Clint has on under the chopped up elephant costume? It was the Peter Pan tunic he wore when he was 4. Back in '91 it covered his body from his neck to his knees. He's grown taller. But not wider.

The lil bros came trick er treatin...

From Jen:

A Prayer Request:

"hey mrs o!um this is mroe for ur prayer requests thinger i just wanted /wundering if u cud mayeb post on ur site about this gurl at my frends school, shes in grade 12 and just has been diagnosed with leukemia, she is suposed to go to israel this spring break on a misions trip, so ya i unno just thought maybe u cud post it for prayer if ya wouldnt mind thanks jen k"

Translation:
(I think she means...)
Could you all pray for a young lady in grade 12 who has recently been diagnosed with leukemia? She is hoping to go to Isreal in March on a missions trip.

Thanks.



Weekend is over. Why am I not ready for another week of work?

Three things I'm thankful for:
1. Friday night's rain did not dampen anyone's fun at the Youth Event. I had a bad attitude, but that didn't seem to effect anyone but me.
2. Saturday night. Clint had a friend over, and we all played dominoes. All of us. Weird but cool.
3. Sunday afternoon nap. I had one. Clint had one. Max read a book. Drew played with his cars.
The most boring/restful afternoon in years...

Proverb of the day:
"As a face is reflected in the water, so the heart reflects the person." 27:19

Friday, October 28, 2005





Some prayer requests: (Can I do this? Have prayer requests and a picture of a witch on the same post?)
Let's try anyways -
1. Pray for the rain to hold off til 10:30 Friday night PST. Clint has arranged for the Youth to have a party at the farm (my parent's place) and there is no Plan B if it rains.
2. I have a friend whose mom-in-law has bleeding in her brain. Her father-in-law recently passed away and her husband is being laid off from his job tomorrow. Please pray.
3. I have another friend whose oldest daughter is pregnant with her first child. But there are some fears after a recent ultra-sound. Please pray.

Three things I'm thankful for:
1. We can pray for anything and know that He who loves us is listening.
2. My crockpot.
3. It's still OK for me to be a driver for Drew's class field trips. Tomorrow afernoon we're going orienteering.

Proverb for the day:
Yanking a dog's ears is as foolish as interfering in someone else's argument. 26:17

Yep. It's Friday all right.
I'll have to do "Four on Friday" after the party tonight.
Can you wait til then?

Wednesday, October 26, 2005

There's a fire burning tonight...

...about 2 miles from our place.
Clint and Max grabbed the camera and ran.


Three things I'm thankful for:
1. Sisters who drop by to do emergency bang trims.
2. The photocopier we inherited this afternoon.
3. After 2 hours of math, I think he finally 'got' it. Oy. He has 6 more years of school to go.

Proverb of the day:
It is safer to meet a bear robbed of her cubs than to confront a fool caught in folly. 17:12

Tuesday...

His favorite day of the week.
"Take a picture of my jersey, mom. I love it. I'm never taking it off."
He's on the grade 6 boys volleyball team.
His smile is as wide as the ocean - I could drown in his happiness. Watching him play is better than reading.
And then...
Oh my goodness, as if the day wasn't wonderful enough...
T'was craft night.


It just don't get better n this...

Three things I'm thankful for:

1. Grade 6 Boys Volleyball

2. 21 degrees outside today. With a wonderful autumn wind. LOVE this place.

3. Hope.

Proverb for today:

An empty stable stays clean, but no income comes from an empty stable. 14:4

Tuesday, October 25, 2005

No time to blog. I'm reading. And just got to a good part.

I'm on page 347. 622 pages to go. Could be a late night...

Ok. Fine. I'll take a ten minute break and post a few pictures:





My boys... They took the camera along while we were running errands. One picture of leaves...




Then many many photos of grafitti...





Beauty is SO in the eye of the beholder.


Three things I'm thankful for:
1. They're not bad kids. In fact, all things considered...they're pretty wonderful.
2. Ham and cauliflower soup on day 2 tastes even better.
3. It was 19 degrees out this afternoon. I love this province.

Proverb of the day:
The wise are glad to be instructed; but babbling fools fall flat on their faces. 10:8

Take care,

Sunday, October 23, 2005

Diana Gabaldon

Such a lovely woman.
Her son, Sam was in Surrey for lunch as well.

S i g h .
I love hanging out with writers.

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Ever have one of those evenings that surprisingly turns out special.
I had one tonight.


"Can we make those shields too, mom?" Drew asks.
"Sure." I say, wondering how in the world I'll ever get his brothers to agree to join us.

At work this week, as part of our staff development day, we each were to create "coats of arms" that symbolize different aspects of who we are. Drew was fascinated with the whole project and wanted us to make our own at home.

Despite my misgivings, both Clint and Max were at the table tonight with pencils and felt pens each creating their own personal coats of arms.
"What goes in this corner?" Clint wonders.
So I show them the template: 5 different sections -
Section 1 - Draw a symbol to represent something you're good at. One of your "gifts" or talents. Something that is natural for you to do.
Section 2 - Draw a symbol to represent something you're proud of. An accomplishment.
Section 3 - Draw a symbol to represent your life focus. Your motto. Your purpose.
Section 4 - Draw a symbol to represent a "Jesus - trait" that you'd like to emulate in the next six months.
Section 5 - Draw a symbol to represent the thing that you love to do. The thing that gives you energy and life. The thing that you never get tired of doing.

Expecting everyone to get bored after 5 minutes I told them a quick sketch would suffice. Half an hour later, we were all still working on our works of art.

When we were done, we held up our shields and explained what our stick men and scribbles meant.

My heart is full.




Three things I'm thankful for:
1. All the "to Jane, from Author" personally signed books I bought this weekend. (Terry Brooks, Jean Aule and Jennifer Crusie.)
2. Chicken broth in litre tetra packs.
3. Tweezers.

Proverb for the day:
The heartfelt counsel of a friend is as sweet as perfume. 27:9

Saturday, October 22, 2005

I'll take the one with an ocean front view...

During a visit to the mental asylum, a visitor asked the director what the criterion was which defined whether or not a patient should be institutionalized.

"Well," said the director, "We fill up a bathtub, then we offer a teaspoon, a teacup and a bucket to the patient and ask him or her to empty the bathtub."

"Oh, I understand," said the visitor. "A normal person would use the bucket because it's bigger than the spoon or the teacup."

"No." said the director, "A normal person would pull the plug ... Do you want a room with or without a view? "



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Three things I'm looking forward to:
1. The classes I'm taking tomorrow:
- Point of View ("The point of view you write in is your voice as a writer and makes you distinct.")
- Wrtiting From the Head without losing Your Heart ("Discover the balancing act of writing from both heart and head".)
- Blogging - A Writer's Tool

2. Supper at Moxies tomorrow night with all my writing buddies.

3. Lunch on Sunday. Terry and I are going to chow down with Diana. Diana Gabaldon. The Writer. Hello. She is the author of the Outlander series. She is my favorite story teller. What? I can't hear you.


Proverb of the day:
If you keep your mouth shut you will stay out of trouble. 21:23

Holy COW!
Friday ended a few minutes ago and I plum fergot all bout 4 on Friday.
Oh wait. It's still Friday in Hawaii.
Alrighty then. Let's hava go at this.
(You'll see from the questions that this is an American list. Oh well. )

Q1: When you're in the privacy of your own home, what--if anything--do you tend to read while you’re in the bathroom?

Q2: How did you first learn about your current job?

Q3: On this date in 1915, American Telephone and Telegraph Company engineers in Arlington, Virginia, initiated the very first transatlantic radiotelephone call (they called a telephone placed at the Eiffel Tower in Paris, France). What was the last country you placed a call to besides your own?

Q4: If you had picked the winning numbers in this week's Powerball Jackpot, which was worth an estimated $340,000,000.00, you would have been given the option of choosing between a one-time cash payment of $170 Million, or 30 annual payments of approximately $5.6 Million each. Which would you choose and why?

A1. This past week I've taken the brand new 978 page hard cover Diana Gabaldon book and my reading specs into the tub with me. I wouldn't recommend doing this trick at home. That book is bloody heavy.

A2. Last fall, the president's wife (who happens to be a neighbour and friend) was at a Europe fundraising meeting I ended up chairing at the last minute (after being hit by a dumptruck on the freeway earlier in the day). She suggested I apply. I did. Now I'm fundraising for Arrow.

A3. Long distance? To another country? Maybe I phoned the states a few years ago? But I can't remember for sure. This question reminds me of the telemarketer that called my house this evening; "Herro? Does anyone in your house speaka Chinese?"
"No."
"We long distance company. You maka overseas phone calls?"
"No."
"Ok. Bye."
And I had two (cute, by Clint's standards) young women come to the door recently.
"Hi. We're bubbly and perky. Do you use cable for internet?"
"Yes."
"We can give you a deal on your long distance. We've been authorized to do that."
"Uh huh."
"You spend at least $20 on long distance right?"
"Nope."
"More?"
"Nope. Less."
"Oh. How much less."
"A lot less."
"Like "$10. a month?"
"No. Less."
"Oh. Like how much?"
"Maybe $2 or $3."
"Oh. Sorry. No deal for you. Bye."
And thus ended my conversation with perky and bubbly.

A4. Take it all at once. Obviously. Get squared away on the taxes. Then send money to Rwanda and Pearlington Mississippi (see this blog: www.operationeden.blogspot.com ) Paint my house brown. Buy a few trees and hire a guy to prune the shrubs in the back. Buy Clint a car that doesn't leak. Replace this computer with one that kicks ass. Aquire a few more craft supplies. Book a flight to Italy. Have a weekly appointment to get hair removed, feet pampered and nails done. Put money aside for post secondary education for the kids. Hire someone to make me skinny. Buy that decaying cabin on the lake at Cultus and build a small retreat centre. Get Canuck's season's tickets. Support Diabetes research. Give generously to Heart research too.
Buy each son a chunk of land. Get my eyelashes dyed black. Hire a pastor for our church. Hire some smart guy to ove- see my spending. Hopefully he can act as a body guard too. Cuz, like, won't there be alot of men coming at me with marriage proposals and stuff? 170 million would make me look darned sexy, no?

Thursday, October 20, 2005

I TOLD YOU I WILL!!!

"Please don't forget. I'll put them at the front door. Take them to the curb when you leave for work in the morning."
"I told you I would. Stop nagging."


Due to a late night, the teacher's strike and a sleep debt that seriously needed to be paid off, I had planned on sleeping til 9:00 am.
"You're the only one getting up in time to take it out. They collect real early on our street."
"I TOLD YOU..."

At 7:00 am I heard Clint leave.
At 7:45 am I heard the recycling truck enter our cul de sac.
At 9:00 am I got up.





Exactly where I left them last night.
Clearly I wasn't specific about WHICH morning I wanted the refuse taken to the curb.

TWENTY FIVE DOLLARS!!!

That's how much it costs to park for 3 hours in Vancouver if you are going to watch the 'Nucks.





Totally worth it, dude.



Three things I'm thankful for:
1. Na na na na boo boo - We won.
2. That I've got one son who shares my love for hockey.
3. In some parts of the world, it's Friday already. Party on, Garth.


Today's Proverb:
Your own soul is nourished when you are kind, but you destroy yourself when you are cruel. 11:17

Nothing like craft night ...

Sandra arrived with a bulging briefcase loaded with 8 months of receipts to be sorted. It was craft night at my house and while she was not feeling creative, she still felt like visiting. All those little papers were clogging up her artistic arteries, so she conducted an angioplasty right here on my kitchen table. All the while talking about Fly Lady. "It's clutter removal month..."

My mom, a natural born bookkeeper, also in attendance, had to sit on her hands to prevent them from digging into the pile of papers spread out on the table. "I would love to sort and file your receipts" she said with obvious longing in her voice.
She had also came empty handed. "I just don't know what to make. I need some inspiration."

On cue, in walked Terry. With ideas galore. She'd been to a few stores. Picked up some supplies and voila. She was making cards and ornaments and scrapbook pages in no time at all. All the while taking about Dr. Phil. "He says your boat is sinking. Pray and start rowing toward shore..."
THAT is why I hired her 15 years ago. She oozes creativity. Which can be messy at times, but worth it.

I think Tuesday nights are going to be my favorite night of the week.


I am so blessed because:
1. I have flex hours at work during the teacher's strike
2. I now have new craft supplies just waiting to be used.
3. My mom dropped off a roast ham and potato dinner tonight at 5:30 pm.

Proverb for today:
"Do you like honey? Don't eat too much of it or you will get sick." 25:16

Monday, October 17, 2005

In honor of Gawdy Day I'm wearing grey sweatpants with a red logo on the thigh with a bright pink sleeveless t-shirt and a light aqua blue fleece vest with black flip flops. My hair is pulled by a complicated assortment of elastics, plus the bangs have been lifted off my face with a green headband.

No you can't drop by tonight.

I won't even answer the door.

As it has been explained to me, patiently, by my son Who Knows All Things, my computer is a piece of crap and it's time to buy a new one.

I am unable to download any photos off my camera onto my 'puter because the hard drive is full and faulty.
I am unable to burn any of my photo files onto CD's because my hardrive has a scratch/glitch/thing which won't allow me to.
I am unable to delete any photo files off my computer because something has happened which makes an error message pop up everytime I try.

And, oh my goodness, I Have Tried.

Along with that, our internet connection/router troubles have multiplied. Every 7 minutes we lose our connection.

And every half hour, regardless of who is doing what, this box from hell freezes up and refuses to budge.

The timing has been bad, naturally. It's not the best time of the month to be frustrated with technology. Thank goodness all I've done is cry. No lashing out this month. No long drives to cool off. Just many tears as I sit here wishing this little corner of my house wasn't so important for communication, creativity, entertainment and education.

So, while I'd really rather have a laptop that I can use in my bedroom, or some tall trees to bring balance and beauty to the front yard, or a tropical holiday to ward off the inevidable winter blahs, or a couch for the living room, or liposuction for this midsection, or laser surgery for my failing eyesight... it looks like I'm buying a new computer.

It will be the answer to all our problems. We will never be frustrated again. Life will be perfect.


and they all lived happily ever after.


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There was a message on my phone from my dad tonight:
"Jane? Why aren't you going to church?"


This is why:
On Friday night, I was a driver and photographer for the youth event. This involved two and a half hours of playing in the rain. Not just any rain... Torrential DownPour Rain.
Then, I had the 4 hour pleasure of creatively removing the images from my camera onto Clint's computer, then transferring them to mine, so I could post them on the blog I set up for the youth.

On Saturday I prepared for a Sunday luncheon meeting Clint offered to host at our house. I assumed the leadership team was coming (6 adults). Before I went to bed, at1:00 am Max let me know it would probably be 12 - 15 people... so instead of church, I reset the table and bought more food. I didn't stay in bed.

Relax, dad. 'S all good.




Three things I'm thankful for:
1. Canucks have won more than they've lost.
2. Drew asked for a haircut. Yay. I don't have to "suggest" it.
3. Writer's conference is in 5 sleeps.

Even better than Dictionary Day...

October 17 is GAWDY DAY!

Perfect! All my office clothes are at the drycleaners. Gawdy Day will work nicely with whatever I have stacked up in my closet.



Three things that made me smile in the past 30 minutes:

1. Drew's comment tonight after the 4 of us prayed together...as he's rubbing my back he asks, "Are you going to stay up for while and read your Bible?"
"Yeah."
"Oh good. I always fall asleep faster knowing you're in your room doing that."

2. Clint saying, "I'll pray for our family tonight."

3. Max worrying about my lack of church attendance this month. "Come on, Mom. It's been three weeks. What's going on? You can't keep missing..."

Sunday, October 16, 2005

Party Time

Always on the look out for reasons to have a celebration, imagine my exx-tah-see when I discovered that today, October 16 is National Dictionary Day.

I'm going nuts thinking about all the creative ways I can make this day special.

Too bad you don't live with me...we are going to partay.


Three things I'm thankful for:
1. I made a decision. It feels so good to have the wondering OVER and done with.
2. My dining room. Now that I've rediscovered the table top, previously buried under a tree's worth of paper, I realize I really like that room.
3. This new cordless keyboard and mouse.

Dictionary trivia:
Spoonfed, at 8 letters long, is the longest word in the English language, made up of letters in reverse alphabetical order.

Saturday, October 15, 2005

Thanks, mom.

Sacrificial giving.
That's what I'm used to from my parents. They give and they give and they bless me with with unlimited gifts of love and time and things.

Clint has taken on a leadership role in our church's youth group. Somehow this became a family project, as none of us want him to fail in this role. We've been supporting his efforts as much as possible, including late night, last minute runs to Kinko's for photocopying or hosting the youth at the cabin for a retreat.

Yesterday's event was a photo scavenger hunt. The group was divided into 2 teams, each with parent drivers and a transport vehicle. The idea was to take creative, inventive photos of your team in various locations around town. The catch was, (think of the "Friends" sitcom's opening sequence) you needed to take a couch with you. And take pictures of the team with the couch...

This is why I appreciate my mom sooo much. She graciously, no maybe forcefully would be a better word, offered the youth her couch. My dad was surprised that they were giving away a perfectly good piece of furniture - but seeing it was for the kids, he gladly drove it over.

Their family room now has a bare spot where the love seat of my teen years is missing. It had solidly held that location for about 30 years. All my dating took place on that couch. (Dating = watching TV for 7 years.) The grandkids had their sleepovers on that couch.

And now the youth of Murrayville have memories of an evening with that couch as well:

Couch on the Move







Friday, October 14, 2005

Four 4 Friday. Plus a bonus one.


Q1: What are the four (4) things you say most often?
Q2: What are four (4) things you wish you could do right now?
Q3: What are four (4) things that turn you on?
Q4: What are four (4) things you know you can't do?
Q5: What four (4) sounds or noises do you absolutely hate?

A1: "Is that yours? Pick it up and put it away. Where it belongs. No not tomorrow. Today. It doesn't belong there..."
"Help. How come my computer's doing this?"
"Love ya."
"I'm so far behind...."

A2: Right now? Right this minute? I wish I could book a holiday online.
I wish it wasn't so late so I could start reading my new Diana Gabaldon book.
I wish I could go to bed feeling "all caught up."
I wish I could erase the lines and bags so that in the morning I would look and feel better aboutmyself.
(Oh, yeah, and I wish I could eliminate world hunger and be a catalyst for peace in the middle east.)

A3: Warm, gentle smiling eyes that aren't afraid to make eye contact.
Unselfishness and vulnerability.
Lingering kisses.
Self confidence.

A4: Celebrate a 50th wedding anniversary.
Reach serving plates on the top shelf without a stool.
Abuse a child.
Sing.

A5: Someone eating a pickle within 6 inches of my ear.
Any songs by Rage Against the Machine, Swollen Members or System of a Down.
Whining.
The doctor saying, "Oops. It's stuck," when trying to remove the speculum.

Wednesday, October 12, 2005

I made these

Just in case anyone from my church reads this blog, I've posted all the photos I took at the Youth Retreat here: http://spaces.msn.com/members/murrayvilleyouth/PersonalSpace
Go. Have a look.
For those of you keeping score, yes. That's makes it 6. Six blogs.
I have a special book on my desk thats sole purpose is to record blog names and passwords.
Because it can be confusing.

Four goals for this week:
1. Delete all my photo files. Burn them onto CD's first.
2. Delete all leftover turkey from the fridge.
3. Delete sugar and flour from my life.
4. Delete thoughts from my brain that cause anger or disappointment.

Three things I'm thankful for:
1. Kids have this week off.
2. My bro-in-law in helping Clint with his car issues.
3. I have containment on the sockball crisis.

Two items that need attention:
1. The squeakiness of all the beds in our house.
2. The disappearance of my cutting board.

One event I'm looking forward to:
1. Crafting night at my place next Tuesday. You're welcome to come...

A fun site to visit...



http://toilette-humor.com/carve.html

Monday, October 10, 2005

Took the fun right out of it...


On Friday night, instead of heading up to the lake, like I had planned, we stayed home. The kids all had plans, so I spent an enjoyable evening dealing with all the photos on my hard drive. Thousands of them. In a variety of folders. All needing to be organized.

I worked on them for hours and felt pretty good once the night was done. I had cleaned up about 800 of them, and deleted a whack of others, freeing up 15% of my hard drive memory space.

On Saturday, the kids were far more open to the idea of getting out of town. I was packed and sitting in the truck at 1:00 pm. Clint started to get dressed about then. We left the driveway at 2:00. After a quick stop for groceries, we made it into the lake area at 3:30 pm.

It as been a longstanding tradition for me (5 years or so) to take pictures of the kids on the Thanksgiving weekend. The colours are spectacular and they still have a tennsy bit of summer glow left on their faces. By December they look pastey and pale, so I like to take our annual Christmas Card photo in october.

At 3:30 pm on Saturday it was cloudy with a few sunny breaks. "If we hurry, I might still be able to get some nice shots" I thought to myself. However. I was not driving... and as we twisted past the Marina, Clint noticed Kevin's truck in the parking lot.
"Kevin's here!" he said excitedly. "He must be buying clothes."
He pulled a U-Turn on a curvy stretch of road and parked beside his uncle.
"I'll be right back. Just wanna see if there's any deals..."

We arrived at the cabin at 4:45pm.
"Can we go straight to the dock for some photos?" I ask.
"It's too late now. Besides, I need to go up to Stillwood." Clint says.

So after we unpack the truck, he heads out with my Durango, and I take my camera for a walk.

The clouds drift out of the way, and just before the sun slips behind the moutain, it shines on the shoreline, brightening up the golden trees.

Clint comes back 15 minutes later, so I call for him and his brothers to join me at the lake for a few photos.

They saunter out with an assortment of props (caps, jackets, head bands) and do some outrageous Zoolander poses for me.
I'm working as fast as I can, but the sun is setting and it's really far too dark for portraiture.

Naturally, the next morning brings clear skies and brilliant sunshine. But with all the fiddling I did the day before, I have limited battery power and even less space on the card.

Even so, I manage to take a great collection of casual shots of the kids while they play with guns, take turns riding the quad and do a few more Zoolander poses.

With 12 shots left on the camera, we packed up to head back home.
"Hope you guys don't mind if I stop the truck if I happen to see some breathtaking scenery that I have to capture..." I warn them.
"I'll drive," Clint offers. "And, lets go up through the valley. I bet there are some great shots out that way."
So we head up into the valley and get spooked by dead end roads, shotgun shots, and weird- looking hitch hikers on desserted back roads. But they all got into the "hunt" for a great scenic photo.

Sunday night, with the kids at their dad's for Thanksgiving, I found myself home alone with my computer.
It took two and a half hours to download the images from my camera onto my computer. Then each image needed some photosphop work because they were taken in the dark. I worked on them for 6 hours ...putting them into new files when they were done, and deleting the untouched version from the original file as I went along in an effort to keep my memory usage as low as possible.

I lost my spot at the computer at 11:00 pm when they got back.
Clint wanted the pictures of him sent over to his computer via MSN. And Max wanted to play with the images of him on my computer. They were very pleased with the results.

My turn to get back on the computer came at 4:30 pm this afternoon. Thanksgiving dinner and October birthdays were being celebrated here, so when my dad and mom arrived, I ushered them over to my computer. I brought up the files I had made of the kids and set it to "Slideshow" so they watch.

The file was empty.

"Oh well," says Clint. "That's never happened to me on my computer."
"Don't worry about it mom," says Max. "It's no big deal."

My brother in law looked for the missing images for hours tonight.
They're gone.

It took the fun right out of Thanksgiving.

Happy Thanksgiving


Three things I'm thankful for:
1. L o n g weekend. With just enough sunny moments.
2. Three kids. Who willingly came on a photo-drive with me into the Columbia Valley to hunt down some good pics.
3. My eyesight. So I can see the things that God has made. It's a beautiful world out there.

Take care,

Saturday, October 8, 2005


Hurrumph.
The kids didn't want to go to the lake.

So I parked my butt in front of the computer and organized a couple thousand photos.

For those of you who were there, I've posted the pictures of our Creation Reunion BBQ here:
http://spaces.msn.com/members/poppygrad/PersonalSpace

Guess I'll go to bed now.

Friday, October 7, 2005

Four on Friday





Q1: What do you consider more important: Your Character or Your Reputation?
Q2: Do you have any art hanging on your walls that you've created yourself. If so, what is it? If not, do you dream of creating pieces of your own?
Q3: For the men in the audience... boxers or briefs? And for the ladies in the house, which do you prefer?

Q4: If you had the power and influence to rid the world of just one thing, what would that one thing be?

1. Abraham Lincoln said: "Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing."
I agree with Abe. Character is what counts. The rest is smoke and mirrors. Reputation is most often based on rumor and/or skewed information. We have no control over what other people choose to believe about us, nor should we care. What we do have control over is our actions, our words, and how we treat others. Integrity baby - that's what it's all about.

2. I once hooked a rug and got my dad to frame it so I could hang it on the wall. Yes, a hooked rug is a piece of art. Other than that, it would be photos that I've taken. Clint and I have a plan for the large wall in the entrance. It would involve art work. By both of us. With the amount of spare time we both have this fall, I'm guessing that wall will be empty for some time yet. But we have a dream. And follow it we will.

3. Boxers. Definitely boxers. With a good waist band. Silky ones for, erhm, I can't remember.

4. The power to rid the world on one thing...
Max and I watched Oprah this afternoon. Ok. He was playing some computer game that involves jewels and looks like Tetris. I was snoring on the couch. (Once every three weeks or so, I crash. Literally. One minute I'm standing, next minute I fallen over. Good thing the couch always catches me. ) Anyway, Oprah was on, so we both were sort of aware of her guests. Which all had been on the movie "Crash".
So tonight, he and I rented it. After CSI and ER, we put it in.

Great movie.
Got us both thinking about some issues.

So, with that film still fresh in my mind, I might be tempted to say, if I could rid the world of just one thing, I would have to say hatred. Racial hatred.
But maybe it wasn't really about racists. Maybe it was fear. Maybe I should try to rid the world of fear.
But then I read a mother-of-twins blog yesterday and she ranted for pages on the evils of trans fats. Maybe I should rid the world of that.
But a weekend of rainy days is nothing to look forward to, so maybe I should rid the world of rainy weekends.

See, you thought I was going to take this question seriously. Especially since I was all deep and scholarly with the first question. I fooled you.

My blog. I can do that.


Bloggers, post your answers. Let's just see what you would do, shall we? The rest of you can e-mail or use the comments.




Alright, if there's one thing I could rid the world of it would be poverty.




Three things I'm thankful for:
1. I'm taking tomorrow off. Yay. Sleep in. No monkey clothes. No bagged lunches either, as the kids have the day off as well. It'll be like a perfect summer day. Only without the sun.

2. The Canucks won. Max, Drew and I wore our jerseys and hung the Canuck's flag on the fireplace mantle. Go boys. Love watching Bertuzzi, Nasland and Linden...

3. It was just Clint and I for supper yesterday. He asked, "How was your day?" After the shock wore off I gave a 2 second reply (which in the past has been his attention span on all things related to me). Then he asked, "What did you do today? Did you make anything?" (My job this week has been to design invitations and thank you cards. How PERFECT is that?) We had a real conversation. I thought my heart was going to combust from happiness.



If I don't make it back til after the weekend,
Happy Thanksgiving. May it be filled with turkey and hockey and love.

Wednesday, October 5, 2005

I kid you not...

A good friend left a message on my voice mail this afternoon after reading my blog, advising me to check out www.flylady.net for cleaning tips.
It is quite a large website. They even have a page, complete with 16 photos, on 'how to care for your feather duster'.

I'm speechless.

Tuesday, October 4, 2005

For Becky -

You know how some people leave small pieces of themselves in your heart as they pass through your life? Becky is one of those people.

When she was a young teenager, Becky was my kids' Sunday School teacher. One afternoon her mom drove her to our house so could visit seven year old Max. In her quiet, yet mature and friendly way, she chatted with him for about an hour. Even anti-social three year old Drew warmed up to her as she gently included him in her visit. In a soothing, unassuming way, this special girl entered our lives and left her mark.

She was around for about 5 years and then (sigh) that church closed. By then she was going to Bible School and falling in love.

I ran into her dad on Friday and after he brought me up to date, he suggested I check out a website he put together:

www.babykelly.net

Becky, I ache for you. I have no words. Please know that I'm praying for you and your family.
As I read Kelly's story - I was filled not only with deep sorrow but also with amazement at your strength. I can just imagine how many hearts you touched and how much peace you brought to that hospital ward as you sang to your sweet little Kelly. Thank you for sharing your heart with us.
You are a brave and wonderful woman ... May God bless you mightily.
And I hope, someday soon, you are able to say, "It is well with my soul."

Shalom, dear Becky.

Monday, October 3, 2005

Eight truths and two lies:


1. I sleep with 5 pillows.
2. I was hoping for a third son.
3. I love my job.
4. I've been in 4 vehicle accidents where the car I was driving was totalled.
5. I've fallen in love twice in my life.
6. I used to take books from the library without signing them out.
7. My favorite holiday destination is Palm Springs.
8. I have never had a beer.
9. Once I went to bed at 10:00 pm.
10. I'd like to go back to school and become a graphic artist.


"If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough." Meister Eckhart.

Email me if you find this balloon...



Three things I'm thankful for:
1. Thanksgiving, my all-time, number 1, favorite holiday is just around the corner.
2. It's been a whole year since I bought these pants. Yay. They still fit. Which means I haven't gained any weight in 12 months. I've peaked. Topped out. This is it.
3. I checked off three things on my long term to-do list this weekend. Three of them.

Plus - get this... my new best time for Sudoku is ... drumroll ... 4 minutes, 6 seconds.

And, I've registered for the Writer's Conference. Going to hang out with authors and such. It'll be a blast I tell ya.

Take care,

Saturday, October 1, 2005

"Has anyone seen my cord?"



"Which one?"

"The one that connects my camera to the computer so that I can download pictures."

"No. Haven't seen it since I disconnected it to plug in my MP3 player."

"Where'd you put it?"

"Can't remember."

"I need it. Can you go look for it?"

"Just take Clint's from his computer."

"That's his cord for his camera on his computer. I want my cord for my camera on my computer."

"What's the big deal? We must have 4 of those cords around the house. Use a different one."

"The deal is, that was my cord for my camera and it was set up so that I could download whenever I wanted."

"I don't get it. Just go look for another cord."

"I don't want to look for another cord. I want my cord returned to me."

"What is it with you? All the cords are the same. Just use any of them."

"I don't care about the sameness of cords. I just want it plugged in so that when I want to download pictures, I don't have to hunt around looking for cords."

"Oh my goodness, I can't believe we are having this conversation. What's with you and "your" cord. Just find another one. Or go buy one. They probably only cost $30."

"That's not the point. The point is, I had my computer set up so that I could easily enjoy my hobby of picture taking. Now I have to take the house apart to look for a cord when I shouldn't have to. If you take apart my set up, please return things back to their place when you're done."

"Why? I don't get it. Just go take the cord from Clint's computer. I works just the same. Don't you get it? You don't need your actual cord. Any of those cords will do, just go get one."

"How would you feel if I went into your bedroom and borrowed the cord that connects your guitar to the amp? and I didn't return it? And then you wanted to play, and you couldn't find your cord? and when you asked me about it I said, "What's the big deal? Go buy another one?" How would you feel?"

"First of all, I don't play my guitar anymore so I wouldn't care. And what does my guitar cord have to do with your camera?"

"Pretend you love playing your guitar. It brings you alot of joy. When you hear a new rif on the radio, you look forward to trying to replicate that on your own. But when you get to your room, you find you can't do it cuz someone took your cord. Would you be frustrated if that person who took your cord just said, "Buy another one, they're probably only $30.?"

"What are you talking about? I have two cords. So if someone took the first one, I'd use the other one. But I don't play the guitar anymore.

Clint gets out of bed and glowers at me from the top of the stairs. "Here," he says, tossing down a cord. "I don't understand why you're making a big deal out of this. Just use a different cord. They all work. You don't need yours."

"It's not the cord. It's the principle. If you move something of mine, just return it."

"What are you talking about? Can you explain that? How hard is it for you to look for a cord when you need one? Why can't you walk over to Clint's computer and take his cord when you need to do your camera thing?"

"Bups gets a lot of joy making things out of wood in his shop...."

"WHAT does he have to do with this?"

"... and because he likes to shape wood with different edge profiles, he needs alot of router bits."

Clint looks at Max. "Do you have any idea what she's talking about"?

"... and he finds it frustrating to hunt for different bits every time he needs a different look, so he bought a new router for every bit."

"WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?"

"Making things out of wood is his hobby. He does it for fun. He bought a bunch of routers so that he wouldn't be frustrated every time he started to make something. It's like that with me and my camera. I love taking pictures. Now that I have a digital camera, the second part of my hobby requires that I have access to a computer. I hate it that this second part is always so frustrating. Either I have to fight for my right to be on the computer in the first place, or the number and size of the images freezes up the system, or my cord is missing. "

"I can't believe we are still talking about this. Clint gave you a cord."

"You wanted me to explain why I was making a big deal. I've tried to explain it three ways from Friday and you guys aren't getting it."

"Nope. We're not."

We all speak English in this house.

And we totally do not understand each other.

"I'm not picking up your sockballs anymore"...

...I declared on September 15. "There are alot of things I'm clueless about - but this one thing I know to be true: God did not create me to be anyone's maid. From now on, you all are responsible for picking up, unscrunching and depositing your smelly foot coverings in any one of three conveniently placed laundry baskets."

It's driving me crazy.




Surely they'll run out of clean socks soon.